3rder swingers app review (General description, Pros and Cons, Pricing)

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General description

3rder app, also known as Feeld, positions itself as Tinder for threesomes. It has been released in April, 2017 by WeLoveDate, Inc. It covers such locations as the biggest cities of the US, UK, Canada, and Australia.


  • Quick registration
  • Using all basic features for free including search and messaging
  • Membership is inexpensive
  • Easy search among the “Newbie”, “Verified”, and “Nearby” categories of users
  • Open and welcoming for LGBT members
  • Invisible account as a paid option


  • FB integration is obligatory and it’s a big concern for people who seek privacy
  • Not really intuitive or user-friendly
  • Still works with technical problems and bugs



1-month membership – $9.99

3-month membership – $24.99

6-month membership – $39.99


Users’ opinions:

“I thought 3rder is just another joke that breaks its promises, I especially disliked the necessity to connect via Facebook. This requirement is old-fashioned and deceiving. But I got addicted to it quickly as it really gets me new friends and new buddies for fun. Keep in mind you’ll find more people in big cities so use it during your trips too. My life became brighter, thank you 3rder!” (Britney, 28, Seattle)

“They improved recently. I started to get more options. I tried it as a single guy and it worked fine for me but I am going to try it as a couple nearest time, too. My girlfriend is ok with that. I think this app is inexpensive and effective enough to recommend it to people. You’ll have fun with a more guarantee on this app. I got a new powerful phone and it works without bugs on it. If not a FB verification I would call it perfect for all kinky people.” (George, 32, Toronto)

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Expert’s conclusion:

3rder is an ambitious project aimed to overshine Tinder in the threesome/swingers niche. Well, first of all, we would like to remind to all developers who play on Tinder’s popularity: being like Tinder also means having quite primitive features. So it makes sense to be more original and innovative trying to create something of your own.

Now, let’s get more particular about 3rder. The idea was good as this niche of the dating market is in high demand. There are only a few serious competitors to 3rder at the moment so it isn’t hard to be a leader. However, certain efforts are still needed, and 3rder is on its way to a bigger success.

The iOs version is much more appreciated than Play Store version; it almost isn’t buggy, it’s cheaper, and it’s updated more frequently. The base of members is growing rapidly but it remains limited in less populated locations.

The most controversial part of the app is the required Facebook integration of profiles. We agree with the users of 3rder, threesome & swinger dating platform isn’t the best place for revealing anyone’s social network pages or other direct contacts. After all, it’s already known this dating niche is mostly taken by businessmen, politics, and other public personalities, so it’s very doubtful they would ever want to use their FB page in the dating process in any way. It’s also a bad solution to create a fake FB page specially for using the app. Too much organization and stress for getting a casual partner who can be easily met through offline special clubs.

But in general, 3rder does its job well, and positive reviews from its members became much more frequent and common in the 2nd half of 2018. There is a positive tendency of its development in 2019 and that’s exactly what we are hoping for. Our forecast is rather positive too. The team still has to improve the quality and speed of the customer support, as well as overall design, interface, and features. We recommend the app to all open-minded couples and kinky singles within the listed territories and rate it as “almost good”.

3RDER from google play

Expert’s Rating

Overall                       4 stars

Price                           4 stars

Features                      4 stars

Communication          4 stars

Safety                         4 stars

Customer Support      4 stars

Technical info:

Size: 110.2 MB

Current version: 2.0.5

Last updated: January 7, 2019

Requires iOs: 8.0 or later

Requires Android: 4.1 and up

Age rating: 17+ (Frequent/Intense Mature/Suggestive Themes)

Email address: cure@feeld.co